We get a lot of questions down at the shop. We love questions. They keep our job new and interesting (though it certainly is already). More importantly, questions help us help the customer in buying what they need/want. Some questions we receive more often than others, and one of those goes something like this: "What can make me last longer?" As you may have guessed, it is men asking the question. Nearly every time it is asked it is because the man would like to delay ejaculation and orgasm and have penetrative intercourse (yes, so clinical) for a longer period of time. Ready for our answer? We are about to reveal a huge industry secret...
... you can't. Wait, what do we mean by "you can't"??? What we mean, unfortunately, is there isn't anything on the market that will give a man what he is wanting. Hold on, yes, there are products out there that are supposed to meet this very need. Allow us to explain in greater depth what we tell our customers about these products and what we ultimately recommend.
We tell our customers that we offer three products that can contribute to "lasting longer". First, there are the delay creams and sprays which contain small amounts of a topical anesthetic, usually lidocaine or benzocaine. When applied to the penis (primarily the very sensitive head) they will desensitize it and delay ejaculation. Second, there are rings. A ring's primary function is to trap blood inside the penis and help attain, firm, and keep an erection. Third, there are enhancement pills. Similar to rings, the pills help attain, firm, and keep an erection by improving blood flow into the penis.
These are the three "lasting longer" related products we discuss with our customers. Of the three products, the delay creams and sprays are the only products whose sole purpose is to delay ejaculation in men. Sounds simple, what's the catch? First, the anesthetics are common and normally harmless, but apply too much and the user will feel next to nothing. The likely result of a numb penis is a lost erection and lost chance of even attempting to last longer. Second, and more importantly, is just how much delay is achieved. Let's say a man lasts 5 minutes normally. Assuming he hasn't numbed his penis completely, he might gain another minute or two. That is a best case scenario and most men are looking for better results.
The rings and pills with their potentially fuller erections may result in greater sensitivity. Despite tricky language neither of these options will necessarily delay ejaculation. What they can do is help achieve an erection after ejaculating, and through this faster recovery enable a man to "go longer". The question is, after the first ejaculation and orgasm will either party have the desire, patience, or ability to continue? There is no doubt many men enjoy a second round, but everyone is different and those interested in "longer" are looking to simply delay this inevitable interruption.
With all three methods, it is questionable if any are truly what our customers are seeking, which is a reliable method to significantly delay ejaculation. Despite our really wanting to sell a product to help, our recomendation is to simply buy nothing. Instead, we advise men to get in tune with their bodies (and their partner's) and stop before ejaculation, do other sexual activities, perform oral sex or manual stimulation on your partner, change the position or speed, or introduce a vibrator for her during sex. Varying and mutually guiding your sexual experiences will be far more satisfying for the long term and delay products an unnecessary component (in this context at least).
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